Margaret Chika Abe Koga. I was born at Stanford Hospital on May 21st, 1970.
(Interviewer) And do you have any siblings now?
I'm an only child.
(Interviewer) How did your parents meet?
So my parents grew up during the War World War Two in Japan. My father was actually an orphan at 15, his father, my grandfather, was a merchant marine. And during the war, one day he went out to sea and never came back. And then my grandmother passed away a few years after that. And then my mother was the only daughter of a family with six children. My grandfather other on that side was a confectioner and a farmer right outside of Tokyo, a place called Mito. And it's about an hour east of Tokyo. And like my grandmother helped with the farm. So my mother, being the only daughter, had to do a lot of the household chores and take care of her brothers and even the kids around the neighborhood, she would say. So she left home at 18 and moved to Tokyo, and my father lived with his uncle for a while and then when he was old enough, went out on his own. And so they met in Tokyo, I believe, at a bakery. They ended up working at the same bakery and met and my father had a his best friend who was like an older brother to him. So since he didn't have his parents after they were dating for a while and he decided to ask my mom to marry him, he took his friend to my grandfather's place to ask for his permission to marry my mother, and I was told it was actually difficult because he didn't have parents or a family. But eventually my grandfather said, okay, so. So they lived in Tokyo for quite a while until they immigrated to the United States in 1969.
(Interviewer) Why did your parents decide to come to the U.S.?
My great aunt lived here on my father's side. And I think because my father didn't have family in Japan, like she was the closest relative and had invited my parents to come visit the United States to see if maybe they would want to live in here. And my mother was pregnant at the time with me, and I was born while they were visiting. So they they decided they were trying to decide whether to go back to Japan or immigrate. And if they felt that as a female, I would have more opportunities here in the United States. So they say that's why they chose to immigrate. So this was 1969. So postwar post-Cold War. And it was just happenstance that they decided to emigrate. So there was it seems like there was a wave of Japanese immigrants around that time. I grew I grew up in San Mateo and there was there is a fairly large Japanese American community there, and they're called Shin Issei. New Issei that came after the war and they were a pretty large community of she say, in San Mateo where I grew up. My father is Masayoshi Abe, and my mother as Toshiko Saito. So my father or both of them had their education cut short because of the war. So my father, I think he only went to middle school and my mother did finish a couple of years of high school, but they really grew up during World War Two, and so they they weren't able to to get through much more than that.