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Benedicto "Ben" Menor Jr.

Date: February 14, 2023
Interviewer: Ellina Yin
Interviewee: Ben Menor (1950 - )

Manong Ben Menor has been a long-time educator and community leader. In addition to his service to youth and seniors, Manong Ben helped found Pilipino Culture Night as well as championed and fought for Filipino American Studies at Foothill College and UC Santa Cruz.

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My name is Benny Benedicto Menor Jr. I was born July 30th, 1950, and I was I was born in Paoay, Illocos Norte, a republic in the Philippines. Yes, I have five sisters. One is Rose at 75 years old. Betty at 74. Rita, who passed away, would be 65. Anna is 61. And the youngest, Darlene is 54. My dad's name is Benedicto Galindo Menor SePaoay, Illocos Norte Philippines, and my mother was born in Silad, Villaba, the Island of Leyte in the Philippines. My dad was a service employee. His last position was a busboy at Ricky's Hyatt House in Palo Alto. My mom eventually worked for 20 years as a dorm maid for Stanford University.

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They met during the war of World War Two. My dad was part of the Leyte landing with General Douglas MacArthur. And as they were doing mop up on the Japanese soldiers, he got lucky and met my mom. And the true story is that she was a Menor also. But they had to change her name when they got married. Otherwise, it would have been difficult to bring her here in the Philippines, I mean, United States. So, yeah, that's how they met. My dad is part of the Manong generation that came here in the twenties, and so my uncles also came as well. And when they finish farming, they were able to buy the land that they farm. And then, of course, when my dad brought my mom here, she would be considered a war bride, with my two siblings, we started our life in San Martin, a farming community. And then, of course, I've been here. The whole family has been in Santa Clara County for pretty much all our lives. Some of our siblings have moved on, but, you know, not too far away from Santa Clara County. So my dad was able to buy a home in Palo Alto through the GI Bill. And he after we lived in San Martin, he moved us to Palo Alto. And there he found a home that was an enclave of multiculture and blue collar workers. And so we were all closely connected because of the relativity of the jobs that the parents work and the schools that we attended. Okay. Vacation was not even in our vocabulary. My parents work anywhere between five or six days a week. I had to work as well and as well as my sister vacation to us would maybe go down to my uncle's farm and we would have a picnic there. And of course, I'd be one of them to butcher the goat or the cow or the pig for the party. That would be considered a vacation of one day. But actually, that was a regular part of our lifestyle to stay connected to our families. And of course, we had about seven Filipino families in the neighborhood. So it was like a little Filipino community. And we stuck together, hang together, both the parents and the children.

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My language was Ilocano, but I could not continue because the schools reprimanded my parents if they were to speak to me in Ilocano, which is the northern part of the Philippines, and I got punished with a ruler slapped across my hand. If I sound anything other than English. So it was a punishment to speak our dialect.

(Interviewer) How do you remember how old you were when you started to to lose your language or stop speaking in?

At six years old? Right away, the teachers thought that would be the best way to have a student start learning English by forcing them not to speak their language and to punish them if they did. And that was one of the what I say, hurtful feeling of learning. And then sometimes because I couldn't understand the language, until I was probably in their third grade, I was I was sent back to first grade, not because I wasn't able to do whatever it is schoolwork is because of the language. And so I was, to me, punished for going back, but being too young. It didn't bother me that much.

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Filipino kids that were my age, we you know, we hung out and then same thing with my sisters and so forth. And then, of course, it was very much like a cultural tradition to have gatherings at each other's home to celebrate birthdays, christenings and religious holidays. And so that's how we were able to have this feeling of copa familia of our life. And then, of course, in our culture, all the adults were uncles and aunties. And so that kept us more as a family. And then the new kids would become the grandchild or the godchild of the older parents to be the godparents of the newborns.

(Interviewer) And did you and your family go out to eat or anything like that? And or was it mostly kind of like house parties and hanging out with other family members?

It's a very good point. You just reminded me that when we would go back to San Martin, my dad and I, he would stop by this very special place, which was like a Denny's, and he would treat me to pancakes. Now, if you know about my family, we were very poor, you know, very, very poor. So I could tell you how poor my mom would say, go out and pick this this weed in the backyard. And I said, okay. And then telling me to wash it. And then that would be our salad. But it was edible right now. We couldn't go to the store and get lettuce and things like that because just too costly. So we ate with, you know, what is basic. And of course, that therefore we didn't really go out. We didn't go out at all. My first McDonald's was when I went to college. Okay. And and any time we would be treated by our friends to, let's say, Stanford hamburger place near my school, it was like awesome for all of us because that was gave was a delicacy to have that. And then later on, pizza came into our world and we didn't get to really eat it till we were like almost in senior in high school.

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We had we had a TV black and white manual, meaning no remote. When we got our first remote, I mean, it was like as if we landed on the moon. You know, we that we my parents didn't have to go yelling at us. Go change the channel, you know, that kind of stuff. And the programs that we saw were your basic "I Love Lucy," "Father Knows Best," "My Three Sons," and of course, we loved "Lassie". Okay. But that was basically it. We would they would have news, but it would be very limited. And then sports was almost non existent on TV.

"I attended, my sister's attended Mayfield Elementary School, which was on El Camino near Page Mill Road. It's no longer there. It's a Bank of America. It sits there now. But it was a historic place. But, you know, progress takes the kind of things that we like to cherish. No longer there. But it was a beautiful elementary school and then junior high school went to Turman Junior High School down on a Arastradero Road and then down the street from Turman was Gunn High School.

(Interviewer) Did you have any memorable teachers when you were growing up in school?

My band teacher. Ms.. Ms.. Welch and all my coaches. Yeah. Coach Peterson for junior high school and Coach Vieira for wrestling. And then, of course, my English teacher, Ms.. Marshall and Mr. Ibarra for math. Uh, I don't remember the administrators. I wish I did because one of them helped me get out of a bullying session. He understood when he when I was being assaulted by three white students that it wasn't my fault. And rather than to punish me, he understood and allowed me to stay on campus while the others were punished."

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(Interviewer) And during school through the year K through 12 years, do you have what are some of your most memorable experiences?

Well, of course, sports was really something that I did well, you know, both in elementary and then, of course, junior high school. And I realized that when you do sports, people like you, people respect you. And so and junior high school I was bullied before you could play football, which was ninth grade. So seventh in eighth grade, I was poorly treated by some of the white students. And so one student who is really one, I'm always on my case. He played football, and it was my chance to show him who's going to be the boss. So we had a drill tackling drill, and I ended up knocking on knocking him on his back. And after that he respected me. And then no more bullying. And but otherwise, sports opened doors for me. I wasn't the brightest student. Therefore, sports gave me a chance to be involved with the student, all the students, rather than be isolated from mostly the students who did well.

(Interviewer) And were your parents supportive of your your sports?

They did, but they were hard working people, so they only got a chance to see me play football once. And that was fine with me. I understood that. And then they would always attend all of the sports banquets. So they got a chance to see me get some trophies, that kind of stuff. And it was, yeah, as much as they were older than most of the other parents, I was happy that they could be there for me.

(Interviewer) And did you do any other sports or after school activities?

Yes, I played in a band and, uh, uh, I joined the choir. The biggest coming out of the box. Or not? Yeah. Doing something so outrageous was to be a cheerleader. The reason why I joined cheerleading, because I didn't want to wrestle because my coach would have got me to be a wrestler, and I didn't care for that sport. So I joined cheerleading, got top, top rated, and then, uh, was a cheerleader for the basketball season. Yeah. It it really opened up to, you know, in high school and junior high school, it's about popularity. So then I became very popular because you saw me in my cheering sweatshirt, and I'm out there leading the cheers and all that. They call me "wild" because when we would cheer, I would because I was in a band, I would bring the drums and the cymbals. And so the other team would be distracted. And in some cases, when they were shooting the free throw, they, they were distracted. So they miss and the other coach complained and the referee had to threaten me with a technical if I didn't keep it down. So that's how good we were. And and then, of course, yeah, I love music right in the band, but also because of that, my drama teacher said, you know, you know, I want you to be in the plays. So I got a chance to perform on stage, not that I was any good acting, but it was just, you know, someone that was interested in doing those kinds of things.

(Interviewer) What instrument did you play?

I played trumpet and baritone.

(Interviewer) Do you still play?

Uh, I could probably play, but not anywhere like before. Once your lips go, as we call it. You. No. Yeah. No more Louis Armstrong. You know.

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So I got recruited. Interestingly, to attend Foothill College to play on their football team. And so my my interest was about, you know, sociology. And so I chose sociology as my curriculum to get my AA degree. Yes. And then I transferred after two almost three years at Foothill to go to UC Santa Cruz. It was it was interesting because because of my involvement at Foothill as a student leader and sometimes called a radical leader, uh, other schools were interested in recruiting me like UC Berkeley, San Francisco State and yeah, and so in San Jose State University, because they wanted a student leader to help them and at that time help them with their ethnic studies, their Asian American studies. And I was doing that already at Foothill College.

(Interviewer) And what did you hope to pursue with your degree and your studies during that time?

Yeah, when I went to Santa Cruz, I had my classmate role model Ron Gonzales, and he told me about his field study. And UC Santa Cruz is known for its field study program. And he went to, uh, to Washington, D.C. and learned a lot about public policy. And so I wanted to follow in his footsteps. But unfortunately the program was closed and so I had to find another program. And luckily I knew about this organization up in Seattle to Filipino youth activities, and it gave me a whole world of experience of about grassroots and what we call social programing.

(Interviewer) And you you worked on the documentary, too, right?

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm, I was a radical, so I as well be a radical in doing my thesis at Santa Cruz. Every student was required to do a thesis, which is rare. And so my thesis was about Filipino-American experience, but I didn't want to just write about it. I wanted to do the visual of that experience. So that's what I did. And so I was the first student that did their thesis and, and video, a documentary. And then after that thesis or almost a whole bunch of students wanted to do the same. And eventually people saw the the joy of doing their thesis to film. And, uh, and the school had to basically shut it down because nobody was writing anymore. Yeah, but it was, it was a great experience. And unfortunately, the equipment that you have now, we didn't have we have very primitive. And so my, my, my dissertation presentation, my thesis presentation, I had to have 4 VTRs (video tape recorders) and then we had spools of video film half inch. And so I, we it's almost like being a deejay spinning all of these systems so that they're interconnected. But my professors were very impressed because it wasn't a one man operation they saw when they were watching that, I had something like 12 students that were not in media joined in and learn the experience of doing a documentary.

(Interviewer) So what inspired you to do a documentary?

My I, I was interested in television, so they had a, uh, a classes in television. So I took up television. And while most of the students, when they had a choice to be in front of the camera and behind the camera, most of students chose the front and I chose to be behind. And my professor said, Why? Why, Why don't you want to be in the front and everybody else? Because I wanna learn how it works to produce and to make sure that you have control of your equipment so that you come up with the best quality product. Well, I was interested in law, yeah, because of my activism that I was in in junior college as well as at UC Santa Cruz. But law was expensive. So I had to pass that up. And then I got recruited to teach at Mountain View High School where I started a peer counseling program while I was at Santa Cruz. And that gave me the opportunity to become an educator and do many things that today still known in the works of helping students both in their in their studies as well as in their social development.

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So I entered for your college at 1969, graduate in 1972 and then started Santa Cruz 1972, till spring of 19. Why did I just say 1974? Yeah. Okay. Sorry about that. So 1969 to 1972, and then 72 to 74 and Santa Cruz. Well, I was excited that Santa Cruz had some exciting programs and professors that I wanted to learn from. They had some Filipino classes, mostly Philippine classes from the archeology department. They didn't have any Asian American [studies]. And my first year and then the student Asian American students started requesting that there be classes in Asian American studies. And we were excited that there was the first one.

But it was sad that the professor only thought of Asian Americans from the Chinese and Japanese race. She didn't think that Filipinos qualified to be part of the Asian race, and so that caused myself and my class Filipino classmates to protest, demonstrate and also we demand that she be removed. And then, of course, from that experience, the colleges of the university opened up to what can we do to help you with this desire to learn more about yourself from the American experience? And so the school gave us a place in Third World Studies, and we were able to produce our own works with regards to the Filipino farmworkers in the nearby towns of Santa Cruz, Watsonville and and so it was a way of fulfilling experience that gave us a chance to know more about ourselves through the oral history process.

The height of the Vietnam War was in the time when I was at Foothill College and for whatever reason, I got dragged to go into this this rally. And and the people were talking about not only about what was happening in Vietnam, the genocide that was happening, the abuse and so forth. But also they talked about the civil rights and the rights of minorities and how they were being denied and receiving the type of basic education that the white students were getting. And that triggered the interest and got me to become an activist. And then pretty soon I became more of a extremist because I was extreme by ready to, you know, throw rocks and take down some buildings like the counterparts of those at Stanford University. They were the extreme radicals, and they had their share of demonstrations and the abuse that the police was doing to them.

(Interviewer) And did you participate in any clubs or other activities? Such plays, football in college?

Yeah, Yeah. After football, when we started understanding our self-identity, the best way to do it is to organize. So we organize our club related to Asian American experience. And then, of course, that club demanded that we receive the same benefits that are MEChA or our Chicanos and our Black students were receiving as far as educational services. And because we got the support with the Black and the Chicanos, the school had to, I say give us that opportunity. And they did. And that's when the beginning of Asian American studies kicked in. We were able to imagine students hiring your professors, you know, and administrators. But it was a great experience. I remember Dr. Warren was a history teacher, and I asked him, how come we don't have any, you know, Asian American classes? And I said, because we don't have the qualified Asian American teachers. And I said, "well, that's not fair. You know, in fact, it's prejudice, because I know they're out there." And so to to I say, appease me, he says, "Okay, I tell you what, here's a key." And I said, "yes." "It goes to that room." "Yes. "You go teach the class." And I said, "What?" "Yeah, since, you know, a little bit more than most of the other Filipino students; you're going to teach Filipino American experience." And I was like, dumbfounded. But I took up the challenge and it was rare because students do not teach at that. Yeah, of course. And have your own classroom and so forth and so on. So I thank him for giving me that opportunity, which led me to of course become a teacher in high school.

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(Interviewer) I and you had mentioned earlier there was a teacher that you didn't really consider Filipino to be Asian. And, you know, what was how was your identity as an Asian American and, you know, kind of impacting you and how was that evolving during that time?

Yeah, that was at UC Santa Cruz again, it I, I touched on it that we had this Chinese American professor and he brought she brought books that only related to Chinese and Japanese. And I kept saying that it's not fair you're treating us as not Asian. So while I was in that class, I wrote it. I wrote a paper that says Filipinos, the unAsian American, and it caught fire because my other fellow Filipino students say, "Yeah, yeah, we're being mistreated; we're worse than second class. We're third class." You know, because we thought being Asian American was already second class. So how much more how worse is that when you're not even recognize as Asian American too, you know, being something else? And and this, I don't know, leads to why some of my older colleagues pushed to get the state of California to identify Filipinos, not Oriental, not Spanish surname, not Native American. Okay. Not even Asian, but Filipino and in that way, students like me and those who are coming up would know exactly that they don't have to contend with this chaos of what I call identity conflict.

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Remember I got recruited to work at Mountain View High School. So they tested me out to become a teacher's aide. And they found that I was better than the teacher that was teaching their class. And so they asked me to become a teacher. And so I went and got my credential at UC Santa Cruz and then became a teacher. And then again, I didn't I didn't get a chance to stay in the classroom because I was good in managing students. So they wanted to make me be a dean of students to help provide supervision and discipline with the student population.

(Interviewer) And when you were at Mountain View High School, were there other teachers of color there? And what was that experience like?

There were very few before they hired the first Mexican American principal. When that happened, all of a sudden, the selection of teachers teaching at a basically 50% minority [school] started having people of color who are become teachers. And and so we had four Filipino teachers, and we had three Mexican American teachers. And then we even had Caucasian teachers who spoke Spanish to fulfill the requirement of bilingual education in bilingual program at the high school. So, yes, And then, of course, the superintendent was the Japanese American, very progressive, Dr. Paul Sakamoto. And so he gave the the go ahead to hire the best teachers and administrators. But see if you can fulfill the minority role so that there's parity within the student population rather than it's all white teachers and white administrators and white counselors working with 50% minority students. Now you have a balance. And I think that is why the school and the students succeeded because of that balance.

As I work with the non-English speaking or the limited English speaking students, I explained to them about my experience, and how valuable it is to carry a second language and hold that primary language in your family and continue to practice it, and you could succeed. And and yet we've had parents that came in, says Mr. Menor, I don't want you to let my student continue speaking Spanish or Vietnamese or Tagalog or Ilocano, and then after explained to them that your student is ten times smarter because they can speak another language, then the parent changes their attitude and says, Oh, okay. And then of course, all the students who had a different language succeeded. But it was the methodology that was applied to the student and learning in two languages.

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(Interviewer) How were you impacted by the anti war and civil rights movement and how would this come to impact your lifelong community activism?

It has been my foundation as an activist. At that time in Foothill College, I was not an activist. I was a radical. The extreme of activism, right? So, uh, so everything I do is to think of whether or not correct acts of correction needs to be done in the environment, in the system and the workplace. And if it does, then I should be one of the first to step up and confront it. And then now I confronted but find the solutions. So that it will, you know, it will put into place the answers that the system probably doesn't want to find anyway. So that's that was my, uh, level of activism is to create it as a foundation of everything that I see as work, as education and just spiritual. My, my number one activist, you want to know, is Jesus Christ. If you understand Jesus Christ, not from a faith, he was a radical. He was an activist. He fought for the poor, you know, and risked his life so that others can, you know, have a chance to succeed. That's my number one activist.

Well, when I was a radical, I was willing to go to jail and create havoc, maybe a little bit of anarchism. But as I matured and aged, I realized that I need to be a role model for the future activists so that they can step up and follow the the the rules of engagement and be effective using that engagement. So I think that that that reflects on on my son who, you know, basically patterned his social and educational and personal development to the point now he's my mentor. His activism is so what I call pure as a grassroot organizer, and I'm how do you say I'm proud with joy and that he's making changes and also helping those who continue can make changes, as you know, they see fit.

Yeah, you know, activism comes in different shapes and forms, and my belief of activism is that there has to be an end result. There has to be an ending to your effort and that you have to have something to show for. And so in UC Santa Cruz, which would be connected to also Foothill College, was the fact that there was a denial level of identity, denial of having us learn about ourselves. Denial of having a curriculum where educators providing us knowledge and so that triggered my desire to produce or publish a book on the Filipino American experience. That was my senior year at UC Santa Cruz. The reaction from my classmates and other folks has been, you know you don't publish a book. You know, in your undergraduate, you do it when you go to graduate school or Ph.D.. And I said, Why? Because that's the way the tradition is. I said, Well, I don't have to wait that long, you know, And we have an opportunity. So I went to my provost, John Markum, another mentor, and I said, "Why can't we do it?" He says, "Well, I don't see a problem. And he said, In fact, I tell you what, I'll help you publish it, you know, with the funds." And I said, "Oh my God, that was fantastic." And so I got four of my classmates and their their lower, lower grades. You know, they're juniors while I'm a senior and sophomore, and they join in on this idea. And so we we wrote this book with contributing authors from other parts of, you know, the United States and came up with this anthology. And the title was title by the famous Dr. Fred Cordova, the historian from Seattle. And and so now this book is somewhat out of print, but it's one of the most expensive books on Filipino American experience. And the book is only 67 pages, and yet it costs over $85. But because when I designed the book, you wanted to make sure that that book was going to be, we you say, relevant not five years from now, not ten, but over 30 years. And so to this day, the book is relevant to even third generation Filipinos who are now trying reading it. And those who had the book, they will not give it up. I have tried to buy it off of them, but it's it's a treasure, I guess. And that's why they're they're keeping it to themselves as a keepsake book.

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(Interviewer) And so you have so many, like a long history of your activism. And so we're able to touch on all of them. But I want to also just kind of pick a few. Can you talk about the Filipino American Senior Opportunity Development Council and your work with them?

I started with the, uh, the [Filipino American Senior Opportunity Development Council] when I was coming out of college, when they were just starting in 1973 to, uh, demand from the city a place for retired Filipino farmworkers. And so I was one of the young students to help demonstrate and to demand the city to have that possible. And so it did. That was a collaboration between college students and retired Filipino seniors. And then, of course, I have a development background and part of my community studies. And so when the executive director was leaving, there wasn't there was an effort to expand the the center of 3500 square feet to more because the size of the facility was not able to maintain the growth of the senior population. So in 1993, I was asked by the founder of Fil-Am SODC, [Jacinto] Tony Siquig to take over, and that my job was to, uh, see, see fit to complete the dream of building a new center. And so from 1993 to 2000, we were, we were able to get the city to come through with funding the center. But I also had a how, you know, I dream of having housing as well. So this was going to be a center and senior housing on a property that's less than two acres big. And the great joy about doing this is that we had to fight to get the funding. And so part of it is getting people elected that believe in our dream.

And so Mayor Susan Hammer was the first who offered $4 million. But here's activism at work, creative activism. They said to me, "Ben, we can't give you any money because you're on the wrong side of the street to get redevelop funds." Okay, if you know Japantown, we're on Empire on the on the opposite side. The other side is Japantown. And so we couldn't get it. And then I looked at the mayor and I said, "Why can't we?" "Because you're on the wrong side." And I said, "Mayor Hammer, you're the mayor." And she said, "I know I'm the mayor." I said, "Yeah, so be the mayor." And she got it. What you did is she will draw the line of the the boundary so that it went down Empire and looped over the property where the center was and went back out to Empire. And that's how we got our first fund of $4 million. And then that was going to be to renovate. And then we got Mayor Ron Gonzales elected who went to UC Santa Cruz, and he believed in the dream. And so he promised that if he be mayor, he would make sure that the project would be built right. But it would cost $4 million more. So instead of a renovated facility, which would be there was asbestos and all that, I said to them, it's not worth it. So they said, We agree. So they tore it down, gave $8 million, and now from 3500 square fee to 16,600 square feet, which gave so much opportunity in the center, not only for senior citizens, but for students and everybody else in the community. On top of that, we had 105 units of senior housing and some of them housed the veterans who are now getting benefits, who deserve to have decent living. So that's that's you know, the Fil-Am SODC.

Yeah. And oh, I have to say, in developing that, we also faced some prejudice. So the planners were very disappointed or upset because they didn't get the project. I got the project with bridge housing and and so that the planner came in and we're talking about the the what kinds of plans are going to be put into the project. And we wanted to have a say, reflect Asia. And then, of course, one of the plans is bamboo. This planner said, "No, you can't have bamboo." And I said, "Why not?" "Because bamboo is not good for the soil and and the property and the building." And I said, "Well, you don't know that. There's 85 different kinds of bamboo. And those certain bamboos, they grow like trees." Right. And so he says, "No, I don't want it." And so I said, "Fine, I'm going to report to the city council that you don't like Asians." And he looked funny. And of course, the development team were all Caucasian except me. And and then he said, "I didn't say that." I said, "You did." I said, "By not allowing us to have a plant that represents our culture. Do you know the bamboo?" I had to teach him. We eat it. We use it to wear it. And it's even part of our spiritual identity. So if that's your fear, I'm going to tell them that you have a prejudice against us Filipinos. And he looked around and everybody looked at him and sort of gave him a look like, I don't think you're going to win this one. So then he says, You know what, Bamboo sounds good. So so my point is that activism can be done in an indirect approach. But knowing the facts about what bamboo means, if I didn't, then he could have gotten away with not having bamboo at that center.

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4Cs (Community Child Care Council in Santa Clara County) was a premier child care agency, not only here but in many parts of California for its very modern approach and providing child care. And so we married that to to put child care in the rooms so that we can have child care there with the seniors. And then we use the seniors as a form of, not just babysitting, but, you know, adult supervision as well as sometimes the seniors would go and read stories to the children. And so it was a very, very warm feeling. And so when the children would pass by as seniors, they would wave and some would say, Hi, Grandpa. Hi, Grandma. And of course, the seniors would respond back and show them the care and love that these children may not be having at home.

We're part of the North Side. And its development was that we we convinced the city that intergenerational programing has value. In fact, it has greater effect to the development of a child as well as the senior. And so we use intergeneration. We had the students teach the seniors how to use the computer, but not only did they use a computer, the students taught them how to build their own computer because they couldn't take the computer home. So why don't you have your own? So the students and staff were able to have this intergeneration of building technology and having the seniors know how to use technology. And so therefore, many of them were able to use Skype and call back home and talk to their families back in the Philippines. And then, of course, other ethnic groups use the same approach to learning technology and communicating back home.

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Yeah, the Delano Manong Park was an important achievement by the young Filipino Americans. One of the organization is LEAD [Leadership, Education, Activism and Dialogue]Pilipino. They led to get this new development where it's required to have a place, a park, and to have it named after a Filipino theme. And one of the young leaders thought it would be great to honor the Manongs, and especially those that started the grape strike in Delano. And that's how it got the word Delano Manongs Park. So now it's complete; it's been open to the public. And now the Filipinos again have another sense of pride and belonging. And that's important. When you've been basically denied from many generations to almost even now, that they feel that the city has opened up and that were part of the life and and the society inside this city.

My thought and being part of an organization is what can I contribute? And using my grassroots experience as well as social programing, I would choose the type of organization that would fit my contributions. So one of them is the National Federation of Philippine American Associations, which is the advocacy organization for 3000 Filipino American organizations throughout the United States. And because of that, I was able to implement a component to deal with the hate crimes against Asian Americans, which quite a few Filipinos have been victims of the perpetrators who want to inflict hate. And then, of course, I'm also part I'm an entrepreneur, so I'm part of the Federation of Philippine American Chambers of Commerce, and I was their executive director for seven years and developing designing business models so that we can help the startups as well as those to sustain longevity among the Filipino businesses, as well as connect their motherland and how to do business in the Philippines.

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(Interviewer) And through that activism, you were also advocating for legislation. Can you talk a little bit about your legislative advocacy?

Yeah, I can recall three at least in 1974, a group of Filipino leaders, about seven of us were pushing our state senator to identify Filipinos as Filipinos in all two categories in state documentations and services and so on programing. And so that was a first to have legislation passed, passed by Governor Reagan. And and now Filipinos can be identified as Filipinos rather than all the other categories that were confusing to our identity. But it was also the next step to have the Chinese, the Japanese or Vietnamese too, to do the same. And so now if you look at today's state forms, you'll see that there's at least seven, eight different ethnicities of Asian American descent. And then, of course, my activism with the Filipinos who fought in World War Two, and how there was a Rescission act against those that served in the war because they were not American citizens. And so we fought against that, as well as the recognition of all the Filipino American veterans who fought in the war. And therefore, the outcome was that a law was passed to allow Filipinos to receive the gold medal award for their service in the war. And as well as benefits that they deserve. And then and then one other legislation before that was to have Filipino veterans allowed to bring their SSI, Social Security and bring it back to the Philippines where you couldn't do it before, so now they could take that back home and live a very comfortable life because of the cost of living was less in the Philippines and having $500 would go a long ways to their livelihood.

Activism in some people is just to make something aware. I want to have not only awareness but to produce an end result. And public policy is the what we call the highest level of end result that if something like the veterans receiving benefits becomes the law, then you have created a permanent change. Whereas in some cases you make awareness and there's change. But it's not permanent. It's, you know, it could be a temporary free and therefore the next generation has to come in and then continue to be activists to make sure that it has more permanency. Well, here in my position, I want to make it permanent. As we close the achievement of making people aware and creating a change for the benefit of those who we are fighting for.

But but to be a master planner is to me an important part of all communities. And there's different types of master plan and some master plans, we're talking about how to design to improve the communications between our communities. And so how do you create that using technology, using certain skills and so on and so forth? The other kind of master plan is building what we call communities and what do communities need so that it completes the system so that every resident is served and every type of resident, whether they're children or seniors, are going to benefit from that master plan. It could be that that master plan includes electric vehicles so that you reduce pollution to protecting the natural wildlife that's in there. Like, that's why I went to Santa Cruz, because that's one of the important things about Santa Cruz, is that they have a strong environmental design. Rather than chopping down that beautiful redwood, can we build around it? Can we have a part of our community? That's. That's what I say master plan is all about. And because of that, in the development of the North Side Community Center, as well as the Mabuhay Senior Apartments, the projects got not one but two of what we call the Oscars in development, architecture and design. It's called the Gold Nugget. So I have two, and that's rare and few. And in fact when I received those two, all of those that were in the Convention of Asian American ancestry, they all ran to me and they congratulated me and I felt weird because Why? Why? Yeah. And I asked them why. Because you're the first that ever received this, you know. And I said, Well, what happened to you guys? And they sort of implied that, well, you know, we're not the right color. I said, Oh, okay, I understand.

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Activism can also put you in a situation of luck. Who would have ever known that I would become an advisor to a president of a country to to be an activist in helping the country become a better, stronger, healthier country. And that's the Philippines. And my task of my activism was to bring improve education so that the technology of the Philippines can be equal to the other tigers of Asia, like Japan, Singapore, Hong Kong, India and China. And so that was a special, what I call reward to receive that to be an advisor to people of the highest level and as well as the activism of how do we improve the quality of life without using, without having corruption. Because in the Philippines there was a lot of how to do business was a corrupt way. Not that everything was corrupt, but it was it was ingrained from past history. So what can we do to improve that? And now was part of my activism in bringing that change.

Unfortunately, when 9/11 hit, the blame was put or spotlighted on the TSA is because the terrorists were able to get through. But it was not the fault of the TSA. It was the system. It was lax. It was too porous for people to get in with with weapons. So so but the most of the TSA is were minority and immigrant, and many of them were Filipino veterans who have not achieved their citizenship yet. And so the government unfairly fired many, many of the TSA workers, and many of them were Filipino veterans who had not achieved their citizenship. And yes, one of the civil rights Filipina civil rights lawyers went and presented to the Supreme Court. And yes, it was unconstitutional to deny people because of their citizenship. And so that change. And so now, you know, you guy, they had to change the law so that if you had to be a TSA, you had to be a citizen, but you can't be arbitrarily fire somebody just because of their nationality as well as their immigration status.

Joy & Cultural Resistence Timeframe 59:23:00 >> 1:04:20

The PCN [Pilipino Culture Night] movement is you can make me cry because it's deep in my heart of what I call cultural bonding. I wish everybody knew how to apply it, but it just takes a little bit and knowledge that when I was a teacher and and my principal, Mr. Sanchez, forced me and I didn't understand it then to practice cultural bonding to my Filipino students because my Filipino students were having a difficult time in school. There were also cutting classes, failing their classes, including being very violent, responding to maybe the acts of discrimination against them. So my principal said, if you gave them culture, an idea and an identity, then you can help them from feeling like they're being left out, that they're being denied, they're being ostracized. And so he said, You need to learn how to folk dance. And I said to Mr. Sanchez, I'm a football player, not a dancer. You this body does not look like a dancer. But he didn't give me a choice. He says, I want to see a show by January. And that gave me three months. So I had to go. Rush, learn how to folk dance. And then as as a as we learn to create the show, the student says, besides folk dancing, can we do something modern? So we then had to. We include modern dancing, which today is called hip hop. And then then can we do something like storytelling? So. So then we created plays that reflect on the experiences of the young Filipino American or what's happening in the community. And voila, that came out to be PCN. And then colleges took it up. And now every college that I know in California is you putting on PCN as a cultural retention to their identity. And then, of course, to parents knowing that their children are learning about their culture because it's not being taught in the class. In high school, my high school was probably the only high school that had a class and folk dancing. Okay. And so the universities see that as a value, and that's why they promote it and provide opportunities. But there's discrimination as well. Some universities don't think that that's a legitimate what we call curriculum to have of learning your experiences and your cultural identity. And I know that because like in Santa Cruz, the students had to fight to be allowed to perform on the main stage, and other schools had had that same situation. So I have told the Filipino students, you had to be an activist if you want to protect the PCN. Otherwise it will be taken away. Just like many places now have taken away Tagalog. They don't teach Tagalog and the universities that used to have it because they don't value that. Tagalog is like French and Spanish and so forth. And without activism, then the system can say, can use the excuse that it doesn't qualify. It's not legitimate language. And we know that's just another act of racism.

Pilipino Cultural Night has been going on for close to 50 years. So I'm 75. Yeah. So I'm proud to say. And I hide away because sometimes the students look for me because they want me to help them, teach them dances. And this old body just no longer can do the bamboo dance. But I'll go there and, you know, pitch in. But yeah, it's, it's a lot of fun when the enthusiasm is still there among college students. And what's funny is that they continue to carry it on because in the PCN movement, one of the tenets of the program is to come back, come back to the community, come back to your university and share what you learned so that there's always a continuation of the the things that they experience to the next generation of PCN performers

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Well, personal life. When I was growing up in America, growing up brown, you know, I realized I needed to be ready to be flexible, to be, uh, you know, agile and to to move when something was going to go against me. I don't know why I learned because my dad and my mom was too busy just surviving. So I guess the the innate and innate behavior of survival was a way for me to overcome the type of discrimination and prejudice that one goes through growing brown. And then I don't want to say this, but I have to say it when I was going to my high school. No, no blame to them. It was like almost 80%, if not more all whites. So there was very few minorities. And and so we really stuck around more like brothers and sisters, not like a chance to have a relationship. And when I did date a Caucasian girl, it was temporary and I realized why because because I was a so-called maybe star football player, the white girls would use me as a trophy to to say that look who I'm with, right? They didn't see the color. They just saw that I was a were top performers in football. And I realized that I said have been taken. So there were very few Asian Americans in my campus, very few Filipino Filipina. Right. And so I got lucky and met my girlfriend at another school where I was, where I taught, Mountain View High School, where you have a lot more Filipinos. And so I realized that having a relationship with someone of your culture improves the quality of your communication and appreciation of from food to things that you wear to gatherings that you, you attend to. Right? If I brought my white girlfriend to my Filipino gathering, it looks strange. It felt strange, right? Because everybody else is Filipino and I have this Caucasian girlfriend and everybody staring at you like how's that?

So having a Filipino girlfriend made it so much comfortable and then marry a Filipina. Uh, as my partner, I also, you know, had some commonalities of knowing what we want to do. And so for she could cook Filipino food, cause it was so good and so on. And then, of course, my son only had to deal with a singular culture, you know, because we're both Ilocano. And so he was pure Ilocano and and he understood that and knew what it meant to to relate to someone of your culture in a personal, intimate way. And I'll have one son, as I said, and he's grown up to be quite a hero in many people's eyes because of what he does in helping young people to continue to go on to college, as well as he's a hip hop artist and a professional and renowned photographer. So if he doesn't give Daddy a credit because, you know, that's okay, we give it to mommy that he got his I say his professionalism from his mom, but that's all right. That's the way it should be. And then, of course, family. My family has been very supportive and all the things that I've done, which is not not often familiar to many families because I have five sisters and they were they were they were always, always there for me, especially when I ran for public office. That was the highest level of activism except I lost the decision to continue the marriage because my wife at that time didn't want to be in politics. And I was being now I will admit I was being egotistical and saying, "Well, I want to, and so if you don't want to, fine." You know, it's the most stupidest thing I ever decided on to split because of my ego of being, you getting into politics. But I think there was that, you know, that urging that this is a way to step up. If you're in politics, you can make decisions and you can also correct and improve changes for, you know, everybody as a public official.

(Interviewer) And how did you balance family life with your activism and everything that you were doing?

I don't think there was any balance. I think I'm going to say this. I feel like that my my spiritual well-being focus on helping people and supporting people and standing up for people. Because I as you go back to when I was in elementary school, when the bus driver was driving and he thought he wanted to be cruel to the students in the bus, he would jam the breaks, and some of the students would fly across to the bus and, you know, get injured. And the bus driver thought it was funny. Well, I went up to the bus driver and I told him off. I said, you can't do that. You're hurting us. And if you continue, I'm going to report you. So just even at third grade, I was already practicing, you know, activism. So all my life there's there's some form of activism.

And and my mom, who didn't care for it because she didn't like not so much the activism, but because my hair was down to my my shoulders, you know, I was like, what the hell is this? You know, looking like a hippie? But she realized later on when my dad that it was the greatest part of doing something for the community, so that when they would go into the community, they would say, Oh, you're Ben Menor's father and mother? They would get credit and they would feel proud that they they contribute by bringing up their son to be what he is. Yeah.

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(Interviewer) And in your pursuit of justice and activism and your legislative advocacy, did you work with other community members and you have mentors? And who were your your main what was your team like.

In high school, it was the coaches, of course, because they needed me and they needed me, you know, to be at my performance level. But they that they also gave me support. And one of them was my math teacher. And so he didn't want me to fail. So he says, you're coming after after practice. And that was good that had something like that. When I went to Foothill College, I call her my savior because if she wasn't there, I probably would have dropped out of college. And that was Dr. Jane Thomas. In fact, they honor her the day other day and trying to create something that would establish her legacy and then, of course, there are there are many others, a Ralph Guzman at UC Santa Cruz, the professor of community studies, convinced me that we can fight racism through community studies. And then he showed me the ways in doing so by organizing easy learning about techniques of the Saul Alinsky organizer to the of the Cesar Chavez and as well as, you know, even Mahatma Gandhi. So they were there and then, of course, my priests, my pastors, I'm not I'm not a religious person, but for some reason, because I serve, they they appreciated that. And they stuck with me to help me in many difficult times. And so I thank them. You know, Pastor Jaffrey, Pastor Bitangas, Pastor Ben Monding, they were part of my make up of activism. I think that's important because if you're just one sided, like if you're just an anarchist, then the results may not be what you wanted to for the rest of the community. And you could be simply ostracized by having a priest to work with you. Because remember, my number one activist was Jesus. And so if they believe in Jesus, then I know that they are active as well from a religious position.

And then my sisters, you know, they beat me down. If I if I, if I didn't respect the women in our community, and especially my mom, who I cherish very deeply, because as quiet as she was, her her quietness showed me the way to make change, not necessarily having to be loud. You could do things with peace. And I think that that was important to understand from her. And and then, of course, you have someone like President Ramos. You know, he comes over here and he gets mad at me because he I don't play golf. He plays golf, but he teaches me things about nation building and what is possible. And so I thank him for his leadership. And then there's there's so many more.

You can now be an activist if you don't have a community around you. There are those who who pretend to be activists, but I call them paper tigers because they're only activist by by name on paper. Show me what you've done. Show me the people that you have helped led and they'll help follow you to achieve in overcoming, you know, the prejudice, the racism, the inequalities. And then I'll say, you're an activist. I have one one activist point that I want to share because it's life and death, and that is I'm a gang specialist in the state of California, former. And I decided that I wanted to fight against the proliferation of gangs, which I titled them in 1989 as community or what we call terrorists. Okay. And so and that's why my son is also a gang specialist. And I wanted to have a community to how to fight that, because that was oppression from an insidious act, from a group of people who wanted to benefit from crime. Right. Crime selling drugs, running guns, human trafficking and so on and so forth. And so that activism, you know, is not for everybody, because the last thing that you have to understand is that you may not live in trying to stop the crimes and prejudice that comes out of these these terrorists.

Narrative & Identity Timeframe 1:17:40 >> 1:24:13

(Interviewer) What are the key issues that you'd like to see addressed in the community and how do you think we should best approach these issues?

The digital divide could be a positive and negative in helping communities become either together or divided, and that's a concern because it also can be a division in the family. I see many families where the parents are no longer connected to their children because the children are more into their their digital devices and the parents don't know how to break that. And so when parents ask me, I would ask them, did you apply cultural bonding when they were two years old? No. When did you start? Never. That it would be a reason why you lost your child because they have they are now going to what we call barcadas; they're like their friend gang to being isolated with just their digital devices.

And so what I'm worried about in this world of technology is that we were using it not necessarily to benefit the future of the community. So the master planning for that is that learning about becoming together has to start even at the age of two because as I teach people how to do gang prevention, you start at the age of two because they said, Why? Because when they start absorbing sounds like rap and they see visuals like violence, and then they start learning the games of violence, and then when they hear the fluent use of cuss words, then that's what the outcome will be as compared to if you start at two and start doing cultural bonding and never let it go, then to chance. So your family and your community will continue to be together. And if we are together united, then we then we can defeat hate. But until then, it's not going to happen. And if we don't be united, then the the the rate of crimes, the rate of suicide, the rate of an unwanted pregnancy will continue to foster. And and then when it gets to be too much, there's not much that we could do. Right. And that's why the prison system has a lot of people in there. We have the most out of all the countries. Why? Because somewhere in that activism of helping someone be active and activists to make sure you are okay did not happen. And so you depend on other things like drugs. You know, my son got caught up in drugs and and it was not to his fault. And I made a concerted decision and told him when he was a junior. Son, your life is more important to me than anybody in the community. And if you tell me right now that I need to have time with you, I would drop everything and do that. And his answer was, No, Dad, I got to control. I want you to continue doing what you're doing in the community now. That's that. Yeah. That's a 17 year old. And that those things. I remember that activism has a price, but you shouldn't have to sacrifice something like being a father or being a mother, you know, or being family because, you know, you get your high, you get your it's joy and excitement and getting recognized in bringing change. Activism is taking charge of your history, taking charge of your health, taking charge of supporting your loved ones, and the ones that you care the most. Activism is family first, yourself, then you can then bring change outside into the greater community. That's activism to me with a little bit of God on the side, meaning a little bit of faith. You had to have some degree of faith that you need to understand what good is and you need to understand where bad is. And just because you're an activist doesn't mean that you go drugging up or lecturing out. And so when I was teaching, you never saw me. I don't smoke, but if I did, I would never show it to my students. I would never show that I drank, never drank in front of my students except when they became 21 years old. But my point is, is that to be a true activist, you had to be a role model. So that that role model is expressing change. Why would anyone want to believe you if you're a hypocrite of of what you stand for? Yeah. So, so when I'm fighting in Seattle, when I was fighting against drug abuse, the worst thing I could be doing is to be drugging up. That could be alcohol itself. So it was an important part of teaching the next generation that this is what I want you to model. Okay.

Transformation & Change Timeframe 1:24:13 >> 1:31:16

(Interviewer) And what are your thoughts about the recurring anti-Asian hate activity happening now?

Yeah. So if you know your history, you know that this has been going on. In fact, it was worse when our first generation of immigrants came from China, Japan, Philippines, India because there were no laws to protect that. Now, 2023, there are laws, but are the laws being applied to protect us? In many cases, no. I know that, even right here. So what does that say? We elect people who care, who take the time to understand the law so that not only are you protecting certain people, you need to protect everybody. So when that hate hits a Chinese, Filipino, LGBTQ, a Jewish person, you already know how to apply change. That's the activism that we need to do with those who are supposed to be to represent the law. And we know that nothing's perfect. I've been in the court systems and I can tell you there's prejudice, even though justice is supposed to be blind. That's not true. So we need to make sure that people who are sitting in those judicial seats are people that have the highest faith in the rule of law and that, you know, equality is the highest standard no matter who you are, because I still see it. And that's why you're right that the legislative and the public policy, getting people in those right seats will make a difference. I don't want to put a name out there, but I think you know who I'm talking about. You get the wrong person and it can make the country upside down. I know that from the Philippines, when they when they elected a person who had no public policy experience, who is a former actor and does his it didn't even have a high school degree. He didn't know how to manage the law. So it helped. It corrected corruption. It helped the abusive people that took advantage of others and so on.

(Interviewer) And so you have experienced prejudice and racism. And what would you say were some of the moments that defined you and what would your advice be to young people who who are facing prejudice in the workplace or, you know, throughout their life?

It hits you in the face when someone says to you, hey, n***, and you and you sit there and I go, What? And what do I say? What do I do? Do I just jump on this guy for calling me such a racist word? That's the highest level of prejudice to demean you to a name that is like caca. Okay. But people use that when you're trying to get to move up and they say, oh, you know what? You don't need to be here. Oh, I know. It's okay. Really. You don't belong here. And when I brought my classmates, my my minority classmates who basically sat out outside the quad where they privileged white students hang out, and because I'm the so-called, you know, football star and they allow me to sit there as their token and remember that token, I've been token many times and bring my my Filipino, Black, Hispanic [friends] into the center of the quad and two white people prominent student leaders said to me, Then what are you doing? I said, I'm bringing my friends here. I said, You know, they don't belong here. And and I said, Why not? Well, they're not our kind. And I said, Well, why am I? Oh, well, you're different. And I had to threaten them with they're going to be allowed to come here. And if you stop them, you're going to have to address with me. And that changed the complexion of breaking the color barrier and the the isolation of those who supposedly don't belong in their privileged environment. Yeah. So when you go through all of that, you know, you should be angry, you should be hateful towards those who have drawn that at you. But like my mom: No, you're not. You're going to find a way to correct it. I said, okay, Mom. Yeah. Because I never want my mom or dad to come to my high school or my junior high school and go to the principal's office. And the principal had to tell them that your son screwed up. Maybe, Right? So I never had to have my parents, which when I was in view high school, many students were caught up in that and I had to help them, you know, because some teachers were mean, but really prejudiced. Students were also practicing prejudice. And so the students wouldn't take it anymore. And so, yes, I had to suspend them, but I would take them aside and counsel them. I understand. I've been there. You just need to know that I didn't have someone like me. You do. So before you throw a punch, come to me first. And that way I can protect you from being embarrassed or shame and your parents having to come to school and. And. And just feel like, you know, they failed.

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I was at a conference, Filipino American conference, and I heard very angry young Filipinos for. But I didn't get a chance to study it. But they basically said, we don't need to know about our history and the people before us. I said, Really? You know, we're going to make up our own of who we are. And I feel that that's going to be a lost cause, because then because then they're going to be lost in the direction of where to go, to be a better person, to build a better community. Right. And so these young folks, as I study where they're coming from, we're coming from nonpopulated communities of Filipino like San Francisco and San Jose. We practice the culture of bounding. Those students may not had that opportunity. So they're spreading their their pain and their anger because they were denied to appreciate a better person of who they are culturally, socially, where with those have families that understand how to do so. So if I can say this, we maintain building those who came before us and that we share it from a culture of bonding so that we can succeed. Oh, by the way, you know that I created three dance companies, right? No? So Filipino folk dance has become my mantra of change. I use folk dance as a way to create cultural activism so that the more we're out there and the more we tell stories about who we are from our cultural forms of movement and attire and and voice, it will improve the relationship of the non-Filipino to the Filipino. So so some of my dance companies include non-Filipinos because they can relate, they can appreciate and they want to enjoy. So that's one of the things that I'm hoping that we have more humanness, more cultures, you know, in building a better community.

(Interviewer) So would you say it's fair to say the story that you like to leave behind for future generation is definitely understanding the cultures that have been here before, that continue to evolve and how important that is for them and their future.

And one word and what you just said needs to be emphasized respect. So you have to respect those who came before you as well as I respect those who are coming behind me. When you have that character of respect, like, you know, people call me manong. Why? Because it's a sign of respect. And when they did that in my school and the students, the non-Filipino student says to the principal, Mr. Sanchez, how come the Filipino students get to call him Manong? We what that means? How come we can't do that and say so? The principal says, you ask Mr. Menor, you know, ask him. So that's the non-Filipino students came to me, said, Mr. Menor, ""We want to call you manong."" I said, ""Really? Why?"" ""Well, we want to be equal to the Filipinos."" Oh, okay. So then, you know, they call me manong. And then the teachers came to me and said, ""Hey, what's this thing with this manong? How come they're calling you manong with the first name before you had to call Mr. Smith? Mr. Johns, Mrs. Villasenor. And I would say the reason why they call me by my first name because you had to hear the word before it was that they call me manong, which means, sir, Mr. You know, a sign of respect. Really? Yeah. Okay. Well, I want that. I said, Well, then tell your students so now the white teachers are getting called Manong Bill, Manong Sam. And it created an environment of acceptance and unity and reduced the division of prejudice and suspicion. So the campus became, as we were evaluated from the state, this is a very good campus of of what we call a school climate. That school climate. This school is very, uh, ideal in learning and, and that came from my mentors, you know, Arthur Pearl. He was professor of education, to Mr. Sanchez. Dr. Sakamoto. You know, so think about those mentors like I said, respect those that came before you and appreciate the gifts that they gave you, including your mom and dad. And that I think, will go a long ways.